Get the sparks flying from the moment the invite hits inboxes. Choose invitations that lean into the matchbox aesthetic—deep reds, blush pinks, metallic touches, sleek fonts, and bold illustrations. A well-designed invite sets the expectation for a night that feels sophisticated and just a little bit daring.

Styling Tip: Print your invites on luxe textured cardstock and seal envelopes with a deep red wax seal for a sultry touch guests won’t forget.

Your décor should instantly ignite the atmosphere. Use a mix of deep red balloons, dramatic florals, blush chiffon, gold accents, and candlelight to create a space that feels warm, intimate, and spicy. Matchbox-inspired signage, moody table runners, and layered textures help elevate the theme without feeling kitschy.

Heart-shaped sunglasses are the ultimate spicy little detail that instantly transforms your party from cute to iconic. Choose frames in deep red, blush pink, or soft translucent tones to match your moody color palette. These make the perfect ice-breaker favor, guests can slip them on as they arrive and wear them for group photos, cocktail sipping, and dance-floor moments. Style them on a mirrored tray or acrylic stand near the entrance so they double as both décor and an interactive moment.

If you really want the drinks at your party to double as part of the entertainment, these Truth or Dare Cocktail Toppers are an absolute must. Picture every guest picking up a cocktail topped with a little edible wafer prompt, 50 unique “truth or dare” messages come in one pack — and instantly the group is laughing, gossiping, and bonding. 

It’s perfect for a spicy bridal shower or bachelorette night: you pour the drinks, and these toppers pour on the fun. Because they’re made of thin wafer paper with edible ink, they dissolve or bob in the drink — meaning they add nothing to the taste but everything to the vibe.

Choose activities that feel interactive and flirty without crossing into tacky territory. Some favorites include:

• Spicy Truth or Dare (bridal edition)

• Match the Memory — each guest brings a spicy or sweet memory with the bride

• Cocktail-Making Challenge

• “How Well Do You Know the Bride?” with elevated, girl-night-out style questions
  Tip: Print games in deep red and blush tones for visual cohesion.

Encourage guests to lean into the theme with pink, red, or white outfits—bonus points for bows, lace, or heart-shaped sunglasses. For the guest of honor, a “Little Sweetheart” sash makes for the cutest photos and adds a celebratory flair.

Turn your sweets and sips into a total showstopper with a spread of rich red velvet brownies, red heart–shaped sugar cookies, and a spicy strawberry citrus cocktail mixer that brings just the right amount of heat. The deep chocolate tones of the brownies instantly set a moody, indulgent vibe, while the heart cookies add a sleek, flirty twist without feeling overly sweet. Pair everything with a signature drink made from the strawberry citrus mixer, served in coupe glasses with chili-salt rims or dried citrus garnishes for a bold, spicy finish. Display desserts on black or gold trays and style your drink station with candles and dark florals to create a sultry focal point that feels straight out of a luxe girls’ night out. 🍓🥂

Quick Tips for a Seamlessly Spicy Perfect Match Party

• Stick to a palette of deep red, burgundy, matte black, blush, and gold.

• Layer textures like velvet, chiffon, satin, and metallics to elevate the mood.

• Keep lighting warm and dim—candles, lanterns, and string lights are your best friends.

• Lean into the “spark” theme with matchbox accents, custom signage, and subtle fiery details.

• Create intentional photo moments (the bride will love you for it).